BE SHARP : No guy can resist an intelligent lady. Some ladies pitiably believe they are not intelligent, says who? Everyone created by God has simple basic intelligence, you just need to develop it. Intelligence can either increase or stay dormant, it depends on how you develop yourself. Read good books, stay current, know what is going on in the world around you. Don't be a novice for God's sake ! Don't be so conscious of heaven you don't know whether P.D.P. is still in power or A.P.C. Be the best in your field. Keep working on your self, keep improving. Let guys be proud of taking you out. Some ladies are a national disgrace, when they open their mouths to talk, grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr......
BE GODLY: When you have the backing of Supreme Divinity and you talk and behave like Him, you command attention. You are automatically put in a higher class...
BE NEAT: Dirt is repulsive, you already know that. Not having your bath daily is a sign you are not a good child of God. Demons are dirty. Any body who claims to be born again and is dirty is a child of the devil. My dear, cleanliness is next to godliness. Our God is always clean.Be clean! Bath daily, brush your teeth at least once daily. Shave, smell nice, wear clean clothes, wear clean underwears. Keep your apartment clean,don't be lazy! Sweeping, washing and wiping dirts off do not break anybody's back!
DRESS WELL: I'm sick and tired of seeingyoung, intelligent ladies who look older than their mothers. Who wants to marry a grandmother? Dress your age.
I watched the birthday party of a 60 years old woman recently and I screamed! The woman looked thirty! All her daughters looked. like her sisters. Her son looked like her boyfriend. Her skin was so clean, soft and succulent. Her teeth were white, well set an enchanting. Her hair was glossy and well packed. The red skirt and blouse she wore suited her perfectly. Then she had a young spirit; she spoke to the young M.C like she would to a pal, her husband just kept pouring encomiums! Please dress your age. It's not a sin to wear fitted clothes. Stop using
scaff to hide the dandruff on your head! If you,plait, plait styles that fit you, if you fix, find your style, if you like wearing wig, go for something nice. Wear clothes that corresponds with your shape. If you are busty, you know you can't wear low neckline, unless you want to cause accidents on the road. Ladies with big thighs can't wear mini skirts, you will shift men's attention from your brain to your body. Now, you don't want any guy to see you as a sex symbol.
Wear make up to accentuate your beauty. See, people get things wrong here. Some ladies are naturally beautiful so they need no make up but some need to just step up! I don't know why some ladies won't apply simple wisdom, nay, common sense! Take Gloria Bamiloye for example, that woman is a raving beauty, makeup or no make up, she's an head turner. When I saw Pastor Bimbo Odukoya with very little make up, I could not believe she was the one. Pretty? Naaaaaaaaah! She needed to accentuate! With some make up? Oh my God! Make your lips succulent. Shape up your
eyebrows, apply powder on your oily face, make your face attractive.
GET A LIFE! : Common, why should you be a beggar? Get your own job. Be financially independent. Don't wait for aPrince Charming to come and rescue you from your self imposed problems. Rescue yourself! Pay your bills, feed your self. Take charge of your life. Be in control. Have a measure of power over your life. Be in charge! You send signals to guys you are not cheap and anybody who wanna marry you should thank his stars!
NEVER BE DESPERATE: Now this is a huge turn off. The law of attraction says we pursue those who keep away from us and keep away from those who pursue us. No matter how madly in love you are with a guy, do not pursue him. Let him do the chase! The great book says "He that findeth a wife..." not "She that findeth a husband...". Put your heart in a cage. Lock it tightly, don't allow it to fly arround. It's so thrilling when the guy does the chase, the calls, the dating, you are on top of the world...
ACCEPT YOURSELF: Never compare your self with anybody. Accept yourself just the way you are. People will treat you the way you treat yourself. You are fearfully and wonderfully made. You can never be Omotola Jolade and she can never be you. There are things you have she doesn't so focus on your strengths and not your weaknesses. When you are comfortable in your own skin, guys go crazy for you.
HAVE A VISION: You are on earth with a mission. Find your purpose. Develop it and be a shining star in your generation...
I love you so much.Keep shining!
By Seun Oladele
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