3 THINGS YOU MUST KNOW BEFORE AND AFTER YOU GET MARRIED

3 THINGS YOU MUST KNOW BEFORE AND AFTER YOU GET MARRIED

And enjoy bliss for life!

 1.  MARRIAGE IS VERY SPIRITUAL: know this fast and save your head from unnecessary headache in marriage. God created marriage. The devil hates marriage. God says it is good. The devil says it is bad and always seek to ruin it. Some fights in marriage are not normal. They are demonic. That is why more marriages keep breaking down despite the many relationship coaches, marriage counsellors, psychologists, match makers, marriage prophets/prophetesses, etc springing out daily. The Bible says "We wrestle not against flesh and blood but against principalities and powers..." It is not your spouse giving you trouble most of the time, it is the demon behind the action. I read a book where it was revealed some witches gathered in one African country to fast and pray against marriages for 200 days! Whenever you see an upsurge in serious marital crises, cyclone of domestic violence and king of all, divorce, you are seeing the activities of witchcraft! What is the solution? Pray for marriage daily and obey the word of God day and night. Some unpleasant attitudes some people put up in marriage are not normal, they are demonic! You need to bind the spirit behind it and cast it out of your home.

 2.  MARRIAGE IS VERY SEXUAL: I teach singles how to keep their virginity till marriage and how to enjoy sex after marriage. Both must be balanced. Sex is one of the leading causes of divorce world wide. You are going to be having sex in marriage an average of 144 times in a year. If your marriage lacks passionate love making or it is sex starved, your marriage will suffer in the long run. Learn how to have good sex in marriage. Be very good in bed. It is an asset you will thank your God you have.

 3.  MARRIAGE IS MONEY INTENSIVE

You may choose to start with nothing and owe everyone around including pepper seller and landlord! Your finance must grow in marriage! Children don't stay small forever. They will eat, they will go to school and you know the cost of university education these days! Living in a single room apartment with 3 kids is a curse! Break out of every financial limitation by engaging in kingdom endeavours and engage in multiple streams of income. I am hosting "How To Make  Money Online" Next Friday. Get registered and learn how to make more money for yourself and family. Be dilligent at work and ask God to promote you. Endeavour to build your house as soon as you can so all your savings won't be going into rents! God bless landlords! The rate at which house rent keeps increasing at astronomical rate is alarming. Work towards financial freedom as you work on your marriage so you can have peace.

May the good Lord grant you understanding.

Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!

By Seun Oladele