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Un-arguably, all relationship between the opposite sex, especially a love relationship started off on the basis of feelings. You cannot be in a relationship with someone you don't feel anything towards.
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What attracted A to B may not be the same thing that attracted B to A but feelings is the foundation of all love relationship. As an unseen force, feelings is capable of setting lives on fire depending on how and to what it is channeled.
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Except you live by the rules, your feelings has the capacity of influencing your life negatively in your relationship with the opposite sex. And if you wouldn't be a slave to your feelings (emotions), you need to know these mysteries.
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1. When care isn't taken, feelings will become so intense and lead to sexual immoralities
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Since it works with the force of attraction, mutual feelings with the opposite sex has every tendency to lead to sexual immoralities when you break the law.
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This is often the case with those who entered into relationship within weeks and ended up in bed. The more you fan the flames of feelings, the intense it becomes and as intense it is, it has the ability to burn the cord of purity leaving ashes when the deed has been done.
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2. Feelings has a strong force of attraction to bind two people together who are in a relationship when it's mutual
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Feelings deals with your emotions or lies within your emotion. A relationship can be sustained for long when there's mutual feeling between the parties involved.
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It has no respect for age or status. A married man and a single lady can share mutual feelings, likewise an older lady and a younger man can be in a relationship when feelings is mutual.
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3. Feelings can last for as long as you sustain its flow
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Fire keeps burning for as long as you fuel it, the same goes with your feelings.
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Frequent communication such as chatting or phone conversation sustains the flow of feelings. When you talk or see often, there’s a greater influence your feelings will have on you two if it's the major drive in your relationship.
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Hence, frequent communication is the fuel that sustains the tempo at which feelings burns in your relationship. The more you talk/see, the stronger your feelings become.
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4. Love isn't dependent on feelings because feelings are temporal and can change when it is faced with the realities of life
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Oftentimes, a lot of people mistaken love with feelings. Feelings isn't love. Love is an intentional act to be committed to the welfare of whom you love, meanwhile, feelings is an emotional force of attraction that's dependent on circumstance.
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Sometimes when you choose to love someone, they might not have anything that got you attracted to them but feelings will have a condition why it's attached to the person it's directed to.
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5. Feelings will cause you sleepless night but when you give it time, you'll discover that it lacks depth
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Have you ever imagined the weird things people do when they're under the influence of feelings? They'll chat into the wee hours of the night when they have something important to do the next day.
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But overtime when it wanes, you'll discover that it's no longer what it use to be.
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6. When feelings is directed towards a particular object in your partner's body, it breeds lust which then leads to sin when the act is carried out
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Some people sometimes feel like having sex, some feel like 'romancing' who some could feel like having an erotic conversations.
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All of these are directed towards a cause. When it's carried out, it leads to sin. Feelings can also be said to be a strong desire in you to do a thing which might be ungodly especially when you're not married.
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7. When soul tie is created, feelings becomes difficult to break but when communication is lacking, it wanes gradually but smokes once in awhile
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Show me a man or woman that has had their souls knitted together and I'll tell you it'll be quite difficult to knock off the feelings they once had.
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As long as they do not communicate, the feelings would wane but when conversation becomes more intimate, the flames of feelings would resurface and take them back to where they had stopped.
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This is why people still have an attraction for their ex no matter how separated they must have been. The years of separation doesn't matter once the spark of communication had be ignited, they'll set the ball rolling.
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The only way not to return to your vomit which feelings must have caused is that you take the bull by the horn - discipline and burn off the bridge of communication. The reason why you'd still commit premarital sex or immoralities with your boyfriend or girlfriend is because you're still creating an avenue to awaken the flames of feelings.
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Check what feelings must have led you to do in the past and make amends before it drags you back. It doesn't matter if you're anointed or wiser, live by the rules!
© Mayowa Adeniyi 2016
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