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There are lots of ladies who are in this kind of situation in their relationship. Many who claim to be in ‘love’ are often confused as to knowing what to do and those who entered into relationship prematurely or are ignorant are also in this kind of situation.
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It may sound as if there’s no big deal in it in the ordinary sense since you’d be deceived to believe that everyone is doing it. But in reality, there’s lot at stake if you get deep in this mire.
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Are you in this kind of situation or you know someone who’s in this type of situation? Here’s what to do. Please read and share to help save a life.
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The only thing you can do is to QUIT the relationship. You know why?
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1. If you continue to kiss, a day will come when kissing will become boring
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First, kissing is wrong for those who are not married. Kissing is only meant for the married because it’s a means of exchanging intimacy and showing affection. Why should you get intimate with someone who’s not your spouse?
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Forget holy kissing or whether it’s not French kissing, the moment you initiate kissing with him, it’ll become less satisfying and he’ll ask for more. It’s better not to start a thing than to find it difficult to stop what you’ve started.
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2. If he continues to romance you, you’re breaking your hedge of self-control
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Oh, you may say, “We’re adults”, “We know what we’re doing” or “I can control myself”. Are you wiser than the devil?
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The devil got Eve by making the fruit pleasant to her eyes, something to be desired and something to make one wise (Gen. 3:6). The likes of fondling your breast, caressing or ‘romancing’ you will make it seem after all, we’re not having sex but before you know it, you’re gone.
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What’s fun in playing with the fire of immorality? You cannot put fire in your bosom and your clothes won’t be burned (Prov. 6:27).
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The more a man who’s not your spouse romances you, the more you become weakened and loose. And a day will come when you’d lack the ability to say NO after all your defense mechanism has been broken. Wake up, before you sleep the sleep of death (destruction).
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3. If you continue to kiss and romance, there comes a day when he will have sex with you
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Dear ladies, premarital sex doesn’t just happen all of sudden, except rape. But when you allow a man who’s not your husband the opportunity to warm your soul with kissing, indecent touches, erotic conversations, false care, blind gifts and romancing, oh my God, you’ve set your feet on the path of destruction.
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An unfaithful man who’s not your husband will get so tired of doing the same thing over and over again. Even if he claims to marry you, it’s a bad way to start a relationship.
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When he becomes tired of kissing and romance and your defense mechanism has been completely shut down, you’ll give him an unhindered access to having premarital sex with you and once this is done, regret comes in.
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It’s better to stay clear of the likes of kissing and romance in a relationship than to walk in the shadows of death; at this point, God is no longer your shepherd but the devil. Do you know what he does? Read John 10:10.
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4. If you lose it, he will say to your face that you’re cheap, you caused it, if you can give it to him, then you have been giving it to other men.
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Whether you believe it or not, most men think this way. It’s better to earn yourself a respect than to lose it foolishly.
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It’s better he name calls you or leave you for your refusal to allow your body become a sex object or a temple of idol (immoralities) than for him to leave you after he has destroyed your dignity.
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Use your head and don’t follow your heart. Your head will tell you what you need to hear but your heart will be confused to know what you ought to do since you’ve probably given a chance to kiss or romance you.
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My dear, quit, or else he will destroy your life and destiny while he points the finger of blame on you.
By Mayowa Adeniyi.
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